A
mediator plays an important role for both the parties in a divorce. But it
doesn’t mean that you don’t have to do anything. Do you know, a lot of things
depends on the couple also. In some cases, couples do not have a competent
mediator but in some cases, couples do not have the right attitude, which makes
the things difficult for the mediator also. Though, most of the mediations are
successful because the couple, as well as mediator, do all the efforts to make
it up. But in some cases, the negative attitude of the participants make it
difficult for the mediator to reach on a final decision. Some of the obstacles
or reasons have been discussed here. Let us ponder on them.
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Hiding information and
assets from the mediator
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Bullying
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Punishing
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Blaming
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Attorney interference
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Stonewalling
Hiding information and
assets:
Some
of the people want to settle the things with the family mediation
service Luton. But sometimes, a person does not want to open up all the
cards in front of the other party and the mediator also. But always bear in
your mind, if you are at the stage of mediation, hiding things won’t help you.
At least, you have to tell each and everything to the mediator so that he can
offer the best advice to you. Do you know, complete disclosure is an important
part of the company mediation process, which does not only make the things
easier for you, but it also make the things easier for the mediator also. So,
try to have full transparency during the divorce mediation process.
Bullying:
It
is such kind of issue in which one person always dominates the other one. In
this issue, person usually suffers a lot because one person makes the decision
and other person has to follow it. N such issues, mediation is chosen by both
the partners.
Punishing and blaming:
A
lot of marriages break due to this issue. In most of the cases, blaming come
from the frames and punishing or harming comes from the females. In such cases,
couples choose mediation so that they can put the blame on the other person. For
such couples, it is good to choose the mediation over litigation because
attorney can make the things bitterer in the relationship and they won’t even
see their faces again in their lives.
Apart
from it, attorney interference and stonewalling are also considered as the
important obstaclesfor a peaceful mediation but the above mentioned are the
commonest among them. No matter whether you are suffering from one issue or
many, you need to choose the mediation so that you can make the things easier
for divorcing.
